Sparkle Tantra

Tantra for Couples & Singles

How to be "Limitless" as a Couple

One of my favourite movies is "Limitless" starring Bradley Cooper, where he explores the expansiveness of his mind through alternative means. I'm personally not into drug-taking (as was part of the movie) however I love the concepts that the movie investigates. I often use the word "limitless"...

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Holding Space & Guavas

We love tropical fruits in our household. Where we live on the East Coast of Australia we are very lucky to have a vast array of exotic fruits readily available. This week's trip to the local Farmer's Market was no different - we came home with half a dozen not-quite-ripe Guavas (pictured...

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Tantra and Committment

I've been reflecting on the word Committment lately, and digging a bit deeper into what this means for both Couples and Singles. It's a topic that comes up alot with my clients...... It's a word with a broad meaning and is often used rather casually. At first glance, Committment can seem to...

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Tantra on a First Date

Tantra is a practice that you can use every day in all sorts of situations. Tantra normally refers to Tantric Sex or intimacy between two people that is slow, deeply connected and highly erotic. However Tantra is a whole lot more than that - Tantra is a wholistic approach to Life. Yes Tantra...

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Bitter or Better? How Tantra can Help You Be a More Resilient Single

Being single is tough at any time of the year when you yearn to be connected, but being single during the holiday season is even tougher. It's even more tough if you have recently gone through a separation. It seems that holiday rituals are meant for couples, but it doesn't have to be that way....

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Are You Feeling Disconnected From your Partner?

There comes a point in every relationship where it feels that you and your partner are not connecting. This happens to everyone and is perfectly normal. This feeling of disconnection could take the form of less sex, communication not flowing as easily or simply missing opportunities to connect....

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What is Connection ?

I stumbled across this video a few days ago and I have been watching it on repeat https://youtu.be/QdkAlYXQJs0 . It is mesmerising and worth watching right to the end before reading on....... Notice how the guy runs his fingers through his lover’s hair at the start. How they touch...

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Are You Begging For Love?

If you are begging for Love, chances are, you may be making yourself sick or unhappy. There's a fundamental understanding in Tantra, and it goes like this... "Don't beg for Love. Just show your heart and the right love will show up, respond positively, and stay." I'm a big fan of...

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Do You and Your Partner Have Mismatching Libidos?

MISMATCHING LIBIDOS CAN BE SUPER FRUSTRATING ! Not just for the partner that wants more sex, but also for the partner that is feeling constantly "hassled" for more sex. Not wanting the same amount of sex as your partner, does not mean that you love them any less than they love you, it...

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Let's Talk about Breasts !

Did you know that in Tantra, breasts are one organ? Energetically, breasts are treated as one organ not two. This is because the breasts represent the HEART area and there is only one heart. Also because Tantric Sex is a heart centred approach to intimacy. Breasts are highly erogenous to...

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